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54 Best Cyber Monday Sex Toy Deals 2022 on Vibrators, Dildos, and More: LELO, Dame, Lovehoney

54 Best Cyber Monday Sex Toy Deals 2022 on Vibrators, Dildos, and More: LELO, Dame, Lovehoney

Do you know what could light you up brighter than a Christmas tree? A new sex toy, my friend. Throw in some of the best Cyber Monday sex toy deals in 2022 and game over. Year made. Because as amazing as it is to save on a treadmill or new sheets, it’s never a bad idea to prioritize what goes on between those sheets. Whether you’re currently flying solo or living it up with your partner, there is a long winter ahead of us all, and you 100% deserve more pleasure in your life. That’s what these Cyber Monday sales are for.Why should you buy a sex toy on Cyber Monday?If you’ve never owned a vibrator or bought a sex toy, that’s fine! We get it. It can be intimidating, especially when you don’t quite know what buttons you want to push (or which toys and products make a good gift). Buying during Cyber Week is smart for beginners especially, because you aren’t spending as much on a toy you’re not sure you’ll love.For some guidance: If you’re looking for clitoral stimulation, suction vibrators are the way to go. Want to focus on the G-spot? Look for an insertable toy instead. If you’re interested in all of the above, seek out a rabbit vibrator, which is a classic silhouette that targets both inside and out. Whatever your pleasure, we’ve got you covered with roundups of expert-recommended vibrators, strap-ons, as well as recommendations for the best sex furniture and accessories for the bedroom. Many of the on-sale toys are sourced from sex experts and educators, too.Below, we’ve compiled the best Cyber Monday sex toy deals in 2022 from big-name brands and shops like Lelo, Lovehoney, Dame, Amazon, and Anthropologie. A word to the wise: Place your orders now if you’re trying to snag the best deals before they sell out.Top Cyber Monday sex toy deals:While scoping out the best deals that are available now, we looked at vibrators and sets that give you the most bang for your buck without sacrificing quality or safety. Though some sex toys might seem pricey, we think they’re worth it, particularly when they’re extremely high quality. Here are the five best Cyber Monday sex toy deals we think you should shop now.Lelo Tiani 2—originally $149, now $60We-Vibe Tango—originally $79, now $40Dame Eva—originally $135, now $105Unbound Ollie Wand Vibrator—originally $76, now $53Luna Rechargeable Personal Massager—originally $50, now $30All the best sex toy deals to shop nowThere are dozens more deals worth scooping up, especially if your sexy wishlist is long. The big names in sex accessories have not disappointed, including Lelo, Lovehoney, Babeland, and Ella Paradis, with markdowns on everything from buzzy bullet vibrators to butt plugs to oral sex-imitating suction toys. Take a look at the best deals below—you might just find your new favorite bedmate.Amazon has a number of reputable, brand-name sex toys marked down, including the hyper-popular Luna Personal Massager wand vibrator and the Phanxy Rose oral sex simulator. You’ll find cock rings from Satisfyer, too, and other wand and bullet vibes galore.AmazonLuna Rechargeable Personal MassagerAmazonSatisfyer Powerful One C-RingLovehoneyLelo Gigi 2 Rechargeable G-Spot VibratorAmazonLovehoney Jessica Rabbit VibratorFrom oral sex simulators to wand vibrators to prostate massagers, Lelo’s wares not only boast award-winning technology, but look great on a nightstand. The luxury sex toy retailer’s entire range, including its bestsellers, is on sale for up to 50% off, with no code required. Try shopping for the versatile rabbit vibrator Ina Wave 2, or the Sona or Sila Cruise for intense clitoral stimulation.LeloLelo Sila CruiseAnthropologie’s Cyber Monday sale is pretty top notch since the retailer’s regular prices are…up there. From gorgeous boho dresses to blankets you’ll want to drape every surface in, it makes sense why. Anthro also has a solid amount of sex toys to choose from—all of which are on sale for 30% off right now. We spotted brands like Maude, Dame, Smile Makers, and Unbound.AmazonJe Joue Mimi Soft VibratorDame’s sex expert-beloved, beginner-friendly vibrators and sex accessories are ones to add to your cart ahead of this upcoming sale event. This year it’s offering 22% off sitewide from now through December 4, making this one of the best times to stock up on its excellent vibes. Perhaps Pom, the palm-sized clitoral vibrator, or Arc, the sleek G-spot vibrator? You could also go for Eva, the hands-free couples vibe, or nab the ergonomic and rumbly wand vibrator, Com.DameDame Pom Flexible VibratorLovehoney’s massive Cyber Monday sale is officially underway, with markdowns of up to 60% on sex toys, lingerie, bondage wares, and other sexy essentials. We spotted the ever-popular cordless Hitachi Magic Wand on markdown, plus sex pillows like the Liberator Wedge, and top-rated couple’s vibrators from We-Vibe and Lovense. Rabbit vibrators and strap-on kits are part of the sale, too. What fun!LovehoneyMantric Rechargeable Bullet VibratorLovehoneyTracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit (4 Piece)LovehoneyHitachi Magic Wand Extra Powerful Cordless VibratorLovehoneyLovense Lush 3 App-Controlled Rechargeable VibratorLovehoneyLiberator Microfiber Sex Position WedgeYes, Nordstrom has sex toys—and nice ones, too. Amid their holiday deals (many of which are on sale for 50% off or more), we spotted some Dame and Smile Makers vibes that are ideal for clitoral stimulation whether you’re in it alone or with a partner.Womanizer’s toys are up to 50% off for its extended Black Friday sale. The brand is known for its oral sex-mimicking suction toys, so now is an ideal time to try one out if you haven’t already. Beyond that, you’ll find Womanizer x We-Vibe and Womanizer x Arcwave sets for couple play. Unbound’s beautiful, safe, and fun sex toys are all 30% off for Cyber Monday. Start with Puff (the air suction clitoral vibe) and Bender (the pliable G-spot vibrator), then check out the gorgeous glass dildos, top-rated lube, and accessories like cuffs and floggers.UnboundUnbound Puff Compact Suction ToyAmazonUnbound Bender Personal MassagerElla Paradis is your one-stop shop for affordable, high-quality sex toys, and right now it’s having a 20% off sitewide sale with the promo code “FALL.” Brands like Womanizer, Lelo, We-Vibe, and Better Love are a part of the sale. You’ll find marked-down suction vibrators under $50, couples vibrators for hands-free pleasure, G-spot toys, bullet vibes, and more through the end of the weekend.MysteryVibe’s toys are backed by in-depth research and world-class engineering. On any other day, they’d be well worth paying full price, but from now through the 30th (that’s Wednesday), you can take up to 30% off their high-tech devices. Add the Crescendo 2, which can stimulate all six erogenous zones, to your cart ASAP, and perhaps the Molto prostate vibrator too.Mysteryvibe MoltoGather round for We-Vibe’s most notable sale of the year, folks! Dozens of toys and bundles (which our experts have recommended time and time again) are up to 50% off for a limited time, so if you’re in a long distance relationship or are into hands-free couples play, this is your time to shine. Top-rated vibrators are a part of the sale, like the We-Vibe Tango bullet or the We-Vibe Sync, which stimulates the clitoris and G-spot.Babeland has select vibrators and toys 20% off with the code “BFBABE.” Slim bullet vibrators, vibrating butt plugs, floggers, cock rings, and dildos from brands you love are a part of the sale. Try not to buy it all—we dare you.BabelandWe-Vibe Pivot Vibrating Penis RingWe love JimmyJane so much we made sex toys with them. If that doesn’t convince you to shop, maybe 30% off sitewide will? Use the promo code “BFJJ30” at checkout. Take a gander at the top-rated, palm-sized Ascend clitoral vibe, or, if you want some G-spot love, the Reflexx Rabbit vibrator.For its post-Black Friday sale, take 45% off one item with the code “TAKE45.” Choose from toys from high-quality, reputable brands like Satisfyer and We-Vibe, plus the retailer’s eponymous  label. We’re eyeing the bestselling wand vibrator and the butt plug sets.40% off Satisfyer toys is a pretty sweet deal if you ask us—just use the promo code “BLACK40” at checkout to get in on the sale. Opt for the classic Pro 2 for serious suction, or the Epic Duo for anyone with a penis. This deal won’t last, so get shopping.From now through the 30th, Fun Factory’s durable, easy-to-use toys are up to 60% off sitewide. Try the Stronic vibrating dildo for G-spot stimulation, or the fluttering Volta for clitoral vibrations.Another up to 50% off sale, Hot Octopuss has a number of sex expert-recommended toys marked down for Cyber Week. The oft-suggested Pulse Duo is a great couples toy dual stimulation. You might also opt for a finger vibrator, which puts you in control of the targeted stimulation.AmazonHot Octopuss Digit Powerful Rechargeable Finger Bullet VibratorThe code “BFVIBES” will get you 20% off at Good Vibrations, meaning you’ll have access to marked down wand vibrators, cock rings, magic wands, dildos, and more.Related:

42 Best Black Friday Sex Toy Deals 2022 on Vibrators, Dildos, and More: LELO, Dame, Lovehoney

42 Best Black Friday Sex Toy Deals 2022 on Vibrators, Dildos, and More: LELO, Dame, Lovehoney

Do you know what could light you up brighter than a Christmas tree? A new sex toy, my friend. Throw in some of the best Black Friday sex toy deals in 2022 and game over. Year made. Because as amazing as it is to save on a treadmill or new sheets, it’s never a bad idea to prioritize what goes on between those sheets. Whether you’re currently flying solo or living it up with your partner, there is a long winter ahead of us all, and you 100% deserve more pleasure in your life. That’s what these Black Friday and—soon—Cyber Monday sales are for.Why should you buy a sex toy on Black Friday?If you’ve never owned a vibrator or bought a sex toy, that’s fine! We get it. It can be intimidating, especially when you don’t quite know what buttons you want to push (or which toys and products make a good gift). Buying during Cyber Week is smart for beginners especially, because you aren’t spending as much on a toy you’re not sure you’ll love.For some guidance: Looking for clitoral stimulation? Suction vibrators are the way to go. Want to focus on the G-spot? Look for an insertable toy instead. If you’re interested in all of the above, seek out a rabbit vibrator, which is a classic silhouette for a reason. Whatever your pleasure, we’ve got you covered with roundups of expert-recommended vibrators, strap-ons, as well as recommendations for the best sex furniture and accessories for the bedroom. Many of the on-sale toys are sourced from sex experts and educators so you feel confident in your purchase.Below, we’ve compiled the best Black Friday sex toy deals in 2022 from big-name brands and shops like Lelo, Lovehoney, Ella Paradis, Dame, Amazon, and Maude. A word to the wise: Place your orders now if you’re trying to snag the best deals before they sell out.Top Black Friday sex toy deals:While scoping out the best deals that are available now, we looked at vibrators and sets that give you the most bang for your buck, without sacrificing quality or safety. Though some sex toys might seem pricey, they’re worth it for the high quality. Here are the five best Black Friday sex toy deals…so far.Lelo Tiani 2—originally $149, now $60We-Vibe x Lovehoney Remote Control Couple’s Vibrator—originally $119, now $48Dame The Beginner’s Luck Bundle—originally $236, now $192Lelo Sila Cruise—originally $189, now $132Luna Rechargeable Personal Massager—originally $50, now $30All the best sex toy deals to shop nowThere are dozens more deals worth scooping up, especially if your sexy wishlist is long. The big names in sex accessories have not disappointed, including Lelo, Lovehoney, MysteryVibe, and Fun Factory. We’re expecting more deals soon from Womanizer,  Maude, Babeland, and Good Vibrations, too, on everything from buzzy bullet vibrators to butt plugs to oral sex-imitating suction toys. Take a look at the best deals below—you might just find your new favorite sex toy.Amazon has a number of reputable, brand name sex toys marked down, including the hyper popular Luna Personal Massager wand vibrator and the Phanxy Rose oral sex simulator. You’ll find cock rings from Satisfyer, too, and other wand and bullet vibes galore.AmazonLuna Rechargeable Personal MassagerAmazonSatisfyer Powerful One C-RingFrom oral sex simulators to wand vibrators to prostate massagers, Lelo’s wares not only boast award-winning technology, but look great on a nightstand. The luxury sex toy retailer’s entire range, including its bestsellers, is on sale for up to 50% off, with no code required. Try shopping for the versatile rabbit vibrator Ina Wave 2, or the Sona or Sila Cruise for intense clitoral stimulation.LeloLelo Sila CruiseLeloLelo Sona CruiseLovehoney’s massive Black Friday sale is officially underway, with markdowns of up to 60% on sex toys, lingerie, bondage wares, and other sexy essentials. We spotted the ever-popular cordless Hitachi Magic Wand on markdown, plus sex pillows like the Liberator Wedge, and top-rated couple’s vibrators from We-Vibe and Lovense. Rabbit vibrators and strap-on kits are part of the sale, too. What fun!LovehoneyFifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit VibratorLovehoneyTracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit (4 Piece)LovehoneyHitachi Magic Wand Extra Powerful Cordless VibratorLovehoneyWe-Vibe X Lovehoney Limited Edition Remote Control Couple’s VibratorLovehoneyLovense Lush 3 App-Controlled Rechargeable VibratorLovehoneyLiberator Microfiber Sex Position WedgeDame’s sex expert-beloved, beginner-friendly vibrators and sex accessories are ones to add to your cart ahead of this upcoming sale event. This year it’s offering 22% off sitewide from now through December 4, making this one of the best times to stock up on its excellent vibes. Perhaps Pom, the palm-sized clitoral vibrator, or Arc, the sleek G-spot vibrator? You could also go for Eva, the hands-free couples vibe, or nab a bundle that includes sex toys and lube in a handy carrying case.DameDame Pom Flexible VibratorDameThe Beginner’s LuckOur editor-favorite, accessible vibrator and more sexual wellness goodies are on sale at Maude until midnight. If you spend $80, you’ll automatically get 20% off your whole cart. And trust us, it won’t take long once you see the range of easy-to-use sex toys, plus intimacy accessories like lube, bath soaks, and condoms the brand offers. Womanizer’s toys are up to 50% off for Black Friday. The brand is known for its oral sex-mimicking suction toys, so now is an ideal time to try one out if you haven’t already. Beyond that, you’ll find Womanizer x We-Vibe and Womanizer x Arcwave sets for couple play. Ella Paradis is your one-stop shop for affordable, high-quality sex toys, and right now it’s having a 20% off sitewide sale with the promo code “FALL.” Brands like Womanizer, Lelo, We-Vibe, and Better Love are a part of the sale. You’ll find marked-down suction vibes, couples vibrators for hands-free pleasure, G-spot toys, bullet vibes, and more through the end of the weekend.MysteryVibe’s sex toys are backed by in-depth research and world-class engineering. On any other day, they’d be well worth paying full price, but from now through the 30th, you can take up to 30% off their high-tech devices. For two already on-sale options, add the bendable Poco G-spot vibrator and the Crescendo 2, which can stimulate all six erogenous zones, to your cart ASAP.Mysteryvibe MoltoGather round for We-Vibe’s most notable sale of the year, folks! Dozens of toys and bundles (which our experts have recommended time and time again) are up to 50% off for a limited time, so if you’re in a long distance relationship or are into hands-free couples play, this is your time to shine. Top-rated vibrators are a part of the sale, like the We-Vibe Tango bullet or the We-Vibe Sync, which stimulates the clitoris and G-spot.Up to 80% off? Okay, we’ll bite. Adam & Eve has a massive selection of marked-down toys from high-quality, reputable brands like Satisfyer and We-Vibe, plus its own label. We’re eyeing the Satisfyer clitoral vibrators and the butt plug sets for gradually moving up in size.For wellness-minded folks, Foria’s intimacy accessories can’t be missed. While the brand doesn’t sell sex toys, they do sell lube, arousing bath salts, CBD suppositories, and more relaxation products for your solo or partnered sessions. From now through the 28th, find sitewide deals up to 30% off. And this weekend (now through the 27th), you’ll get a free mini Sex Oil with a purchase of $75 or more, and a free pack of Intimacy Melts with any purchase of $98+ on Cyber Monday.NordstromForia Intimacy Bath Salts with CBD & CacaoForiaForia Awaken + Lube BundleForia Intimacy Sex Oil With CBDForiaForia Awaken Arousal Oil with CBDFrom now through the 30th, Fun Factory’s durable, easy-to-use toys will be up to 60% off sitewide. Until then, you can still get in on the reduced-price fun. The brand’s Fun Kits are marked down for a limited time. The Oh Yeah, Right There set includes a vibrator with penises in mind, and one for the clitoris and other hot-spot (like nipples) stimulation. The Ride & Vibe set is great for beginner strap-on sex, including a poseable silicone dildo and a vibrating cock ring. Another up to 50% off sale, Hot Octopuss has a number of sex expert-recommended toys marked down for Cyber Week. The oft-suggested Pulse Duo is a great couples toy for stimulation for both parties. You might also opt for a finger vibrator, which puts you in control of the targeted stimulation.AmazonHot Octopuss Digit Powerful Rechargeable Finger Bullet VibratorRelated:

16 Best Black Friday Sex Toy Deals 2022 on Vibrators, Dildos, and More: LELO, Dame, Lovehoney

16 Best Black Friday Sex Toy Deals 2022 on Vibrators, Dildos, and More: LELO, Dame, Lovehoney

Do you know what could turn you on brighter than a Christmas tree? A new sex toy, my friend. Throw in some of the best Black Friday sex toy deals in 2022 and game over. Year made. Because as amazing as it is to save on a treadmill or new sheets, it’s always wise to prioritize what goes on between those sheets. Whether you’re currently flying solo or living it up with your partner, there is a long winter ahead of us all, and you 100% deserve more pleasure in your life (that’s what these Black Friday sales are for).How to shop for a sex toy?If you’ve never owned a vibrator or bought a sex toy, that’s fine! We get it. It can be intimidating, especially when you don’t quite know what buttons you want to push (or which toys and products make a good gift). Looking for clitoral stimulation? Suction vibrators are the way to go. Want to focus on the G-spot? Look for an insertable toy instead. If you’re interested in all of the above, seek out a rabbit vibrator, which is a classic silhouette for a reason. Whatever your pleasure, we’ve got you covered with roundups of expert-recommended vibrators, strap-ons, as well as recommendations for the best sex furniture and accessories for the bedroom. These picks are sourced from sex experts and educators so you feel confident in your purchase. It’s been another long year, so it’s more than likely that you (or your partner) could use a gift that is purely meant to make you feel good, plain and simple. That’s self-care in our book. And if such wellness gifts are available at a lower price than usual, all the better.Below, we’ve compiled the best Black Friday sex toy deals in 2022 (plus all of the Cyber Week information you’ll need) from big-name brands and shops like Lelo, Lovehoney, Dame, and Fun Factory. A word to the wise: Place your orders early if you’re trying to snag the best deals before the chaos of Black Friday.Top Black Friday sex toy deals:The sex toy sales have just begun—with plenty more on the way. While scoping out the best deals that are available now, we looked at vibrators and sets that give you the most bang for your buck, without sacrificing quality or safety. Though some sex toys might seem pricey, they’re worth it for the high quality. Here are the five best Black Friday sex toy deals…so far.Lelo Tiani 2—originally $149, now $75We-Vibe x Lovehoney Remote Control Couple’s Vibrator—originally $119, now $48Dame The Beginner’s Luck Bundle—originally $236, now $154Lelo Bruno—originally $179, now $107Fun Factory Oh Yeah, Right There Fun Kit—originally $280, now $210All the best sex toy deals to shop nowBeyond those, there are dozens more deals worth scooping up, especially if your sexy wishlist is long. So far, the big names in sex accessories have not disappointed, including Lelo, Lovehoney, MysteryVibe, and Fun Factory. We’re expecting more deals soon from Womanizer,  Maude, Babeland, and Good Vibrations, too, on everything from buzzy bullet vibrators to oral sex-imitating suction toys. Take a look at the best deals below—you might just find your new favorite sex toy.From oral sex simulators to wand vibrators to prostate massagers, Lelo’s wares not only boast award-winning technology, but look great on a nightstand. The luxury sex toy retailer’s entire range, including its bestsellers, is on sale for up to 50% off, with no code required. Try shopping for the versatile rabbit vibrator Ina Wave 2, or the Sona Cruise for intense clitoral stimulation.LeloLelo Sona CruiseLovehoney’s massive Black Friday sale is officially underway early, with markdowns of up to 60% on sex toys, lingerie, bondage wares, and other sexy essentials. We spotted the ever-popular cordless Hitachi Magic Wand on markdown, plus sex pillows like the Liberator Wedge, and top-rated couple’s vibrators from We-Vibe and Lovense. LovehoneyHitachi Magic Wand Extra Powerful Cordless VibratorLovehoneyWe-Vibe X Lovehoney Limited Edition Remote Control Couple’s VibratorLovehoneyLovense Lush 3 App-Controlled Rechargeable VibratorLovehoneyLiberator Microfiber Sex Position WedgeDame’s sex expert-beloved, beginner-friendly vibrators and sex accessories are ones to add to your cart ahead of this upcoming sale event. Though the brand hasn’t announced it’s Black Friday and Cyber Monday sex toy deals yet, last year it offered 20% off sitewide, so we’re hoping for more of the same this year. If you can’t wait (us either), some handy bundles are on sale ahead of the holidays, featuring bestselling vibrators like Pom (clitoral vibrator), Arc (G-spot vibrator), and Kip (lipstick vibrator), plus aloe-based lube. They’re highly rated and its small size makes them excellent discreet sex toy options.DameThe Beginner’s LuckMysteryVibe’s sex toys are backed by in-depth research and world-class engineering. On any other day, they’d be well worth paying full price, but from November 17 through the 30th, you can take up to 30% off their high-tech devices. For two already on-sale options, add the bendable Poco G-spot vibrator and the Crescendo 2, which can stimulate all six erogenous zones, to your cart ASAP.For wellness-minded folks, Foria’s intimacy accessories can’t be missed. While the brand doesn’t sell sex toys, they do sell lube, arousing bath salts, CBD suppositories, and more relaxation products for your solo or partnered sessions. From November 17 through the 28th, find sitewide deals up to 30% off. During Black Friday weekend (November 25-27), you’ll get a free mini Sex Oil with a purchase of $75 or more, and a free pack of Intimacy Melts with any purchase of $98+ on Cyber Monday.NordstromForia Intimacy Bath Salts with CBD & CacaoForiaForia Awaken + Lube BundleFrom November 23 through the 30th, Fun Factory’s durable, easy-to-use toys will be up to 60% off sitewide. Until then, you can still get in on the reduced-price fun. The brand’s Fun Kits are marked down for a limited time. The Oh Yeah, Right There set includes a vibrator with penises in mind, and one for the clitoris and other hot-spot (like nipples) stimulation. The Ride & Vibe set is great for beginner strap-on sex, including a poseable silicone dildo and a vibrating cock ring. Related:

9 Best Panty Vibrators and Vibrating Panties in 2022 for Discreet Fun: We-Vibe, Lovehoney, Dame, Amazon

9 Best Panty Vibrators and Vibrating Panties in 2022 for Discreet Fun: We-Vibe, Lovehoney, Dame, Amazon

If you’ve never heard of panty vibrators, you’re in for a treat. The best panty vibrators (and vibrating panties) slide inside underwear or are built-in, making for delicious, hands-free partner play. We spoke to sex experts and sex educators to answer the biggest questions about these sex toys and break down the very best panty vibes for your (uniquely private) pleasure.What are panty vibrators and vibrating panties?In a nutshell: “A panty vibrator is a wearable vibrator that is hidden in the underwear for discreet clitoral stimulation,” says sex therapist and Lovehoney representative, Shamyra Howard, LCSW. “The vibrator is remote-controlled or app-controlled so that you or your partner can have control of the pleasure.”Vibrating panties, on the other hand, have the mini vibrator, bullet vibrator, or stimulation already sewn into the underwear. While most panty vibes and vibrating panties offer clitoral stimulation, there are models on the market that do even more, notes Rae Chen, sex-and-beauty editor of TheNotice.net: “You can find wearable, insertable G-spot vibrators, dual-stimulation toys, and air-pulse toys too.”What are the advantages of a pantry vibrator?One of the biggest benefits of panty vibrators is their discretion and versatility. Because the toys are worn inside your undies, you can use them pretty much anywhere—on a date night and beyond—without a soul knowing. “From the couch to the grocery store to the movie theater, there are endless options for discreet indoor or outdoor play sessions,” says G Stone, certified clinical sexologist and founder of Straight But Not Narrow Ladies.As most vibrators are app-controlled, it’s easy to give your partner the ability to control them remotely—an excellent way to add new thrills to any long-distance relationship. As Carol Queen, sex educator and staff at Good Vibrations says, panty vibes can also be a smart assistive device for anyone who doesn’t have great hand strength or motor control. Nicely, panty vibrators work as external vibrators sans underwear, too, with various vibration patterns and strengths.What should you look for when shopping for panty vibrators?“Think about the features that are important to you (such as sound, strength, remote control), then shop accordingly,” says Queen. Some questions Howard recommends asking yourself include: Where will you use this toy? Who will you use it with? How important is it that your toy is rechargeable, waterproof, hands-free, and quiet?If you’re shopping for a panty vibrator (not vibrating panties), consider how the toy attaches to your undies. “Look for options that fasten securely (via magnetic clip) so that they stay in place,” says Stone, emphasizing that you should always opt for 100% body-safe materials.Then, factor in the toy’s intensities, speeds, texture, and shape. Ensure that it’s wide, narrow, or long enough to align with the circumference of your clit, advises Stone. If you want to pair the panty vibe with tighter clothing, it’s best to avoid “bullet-vibe-lookin’ bulges,” says Queen.What are the best panty vibrators?Below, we’ve curated a list of the best panty vibrators (and vibrating panties) as recommended by the experts. You’ll find nice options from retailers and brands like Amazon, We-Vibe, Dame, Lovehoney, and more.

3 Things to Do When You Have Bad Sex With a New Partner

3 Things to Do When You Have Bad Sex With a New Partner

Apologies to Bridgerton, but first-time sex isn’t always the mind-blowing, corset-busting stuff of historical romance novels. In real life, hooking up with a new partner—even one you’re super into—can be awkward, uncomfortable, or otherwise… not good. But that doesn’t necessarily mean it can’t get so much better.I’m not talking about the sex that’s bad in that they didn’t respect your boundaries or otherwise made you feel unsafe, of course. (No second chances in that situation.) And maybe the sexual sparks just aren’t there—in which case you can trust your instincts and don’t need us to tell you what to do. But it’s also possible that you just need to work out some, ahem, kinks.To help you figure out if your unsatisfying experience was merely a stumbling block on the road to a much more pleasurable connection, we asked Chamin Ajjan, LCSW, a Brooklyn-based cognitive behavioral therapist and certified sex therapist, for her best advice on what to do if sex with a new partner left a lot to be desired.Try to get out of your head.When you’re excited about getting naked with someone for the first time, it’s normal to fantasize about how it’ll go down. The problem is, setting your expectations too high can also set you up for a possible letdown, says Chamin. If your first hook-up was, uh, anticlimactic, she recommends asking yourself, Was I in the moment, or was I focused on the experience that I built up in my mind?“If you’re comparing this sexual experience with the one you imagined, or with others you’ve had with past sexual partners, you’re missing out on what’s actually happening in the here and now,” says Chamin. Of course, maybe what was happening right in front of you really wasn’t so hot, but if you’re into your new partner and willing to give it another go, staying present can help you decide if there’s more sexual chemistry between you two than you initially thought.Chamin’s best advice for tuning into the moment during sex: Focus on your senses by paying attention to what you’re hearing, smelling, tasting, and feeling. “This mindful approach to sex can increase your pleasure by making it a wonderfully sensory experience where you’re more in sync with your partner,” she says. Basically, you’re getting out of your head and into your body.Get clearer about what you both want in bed.“Bad sex is often just a case of bad communication,” says Chamin. “Speaking up seems simple enough, but we often worry about hurting our partner’s feelings and shy away from advocating for our sexual preferences and desires.” However, avoiding the conversation after a lackluster hook-up ends up being a disservice to everyone and minimizes your chances for real pleasure, she adds.Communication with a sexual partner can be verbal or nonverbal, and you don’t need to be harsh to get your point across, according to Chamin. Instead of telling them what you didn’t like (“It turned me all the way off when you nibbled on my ear”), try sharing what you did or do enjoy (“It was so hot when you kissed me here”). “Being explicit about your turn-ons can be a turn-on itself,” says Chamin. “You can also try gently moving their hand or body to where you’d like it to be and show them how you’d like to be touched, or let them know what you’re enjoying with a sexy sound or outright telling them ‘this feels so good.’”

The 12 Best Strokers and Masturbators for Fast, Fun Orgasms

The 12 Best Strokers and Masturbators for Fast, Fun Orgasms

When it comes to sex toys, we’ve covered the spectrum, from sex toys for couples to sex toys for beginners, anal toys, and more. Today we’re discussing the best strokers and masturbators. Sure, you could keep relying on your hand (or a homemade sex toy), but why limit yourself when there’s an exciting world of options that can simulate and heighten the sensations during your solo sessions? We’re all for lending your hand a hand, so let’s explore the realm of strokers and masturbators.What is a masturbator sex toy?“Masturbators are toys designed to enhance self-pleasure for someone with a penis,” says Justin Lehmiller, PhD, scientific advisor for Lovehoney and author of Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Carol Queen, sex educator and staff at Good Vibrations, adds that though they can be used solo, many people use them during partnered sex for “jazzed-up hand jobs.”These sex toys vary widely in terms of looks, operation, and the sensations they provide, but fall most commonly into two categories.Strokers: Strokers (a.k.a. masturbation sleeves) fit around or over the penis and mimic the feeling of a vagina or anus (and sometimes even resemble body parts). Some strokers are open on one end, while others are closed. Many are textured on the inside, providing additional stimulation to the penis head, shaft, or both. These textures “add types of stimulation that a person’s hand alone wouldn’t give,” says Queen. Popular strokers include the Fleshlight and Tenga Egg.Power Strokers: Power strokers are sometimes called motorized masturbators, or guybrators, says Bobby Box, a Lovehoney certified sex educator. “These may be similar in appearance to strokers but have vibrating components or sleeves that move up and down with a motorized asset,” says Dr. Lehmiller. “Some are hands-free, while others need to be held in place. These masturbators are sometimes remote-controllable and designed to offer scroll, anal, and/or prostate stimulation at the same time.” Some motorized masturbators include the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo and the Arcwave Ion.Who is a masturbator good for?“Masturbators are good for people with penises who seek new sexual experiences or to enhance the monotony of manual masturbation, since our hands are only capable of so much,” says Box.While they are often referred to as male masturbators, Dr. Lehmiller says these sex toys are an option for anyone who has a penis and wants to explore new sensations. “That said, different strokers may feel better for different bodies because everyone is a little different in terms of penile size and shape, as well as what feels good to them,” he says. “For example, some masturbators are designed specifically for trans men who have started to transition. The key is to shop around and find the right toy for you and your body—and maybe consider trying a few different ones.”What to know when shopping for a masturbatorNot sure where to start? Let your goals guide you. Are you trying to reproduce a specific feeling (intercourse? a blow job?), or are you seeking a totally new sensation like vibration or texture? Do you prefer the control of holding the toy, or do you want a toy that leaves you hands-free? Will you use the masturbator alone or during sex (in which case, Dr. Lehmiller suggests an open-ended sleeve that can be combined with oral stimulation)? “There are a lot of options out there, so having some clarity around what you’re looking for can help you narrow down the choices,” he adds.Also important to note: Many masturbators, such as the Tenga Egg, are intended for limited (or even single) use, while others are rechargeable and reusable. And be sure to invest in some good lube (but avoid silicone-based lube if the toy is made of silicone, as it can degrade the toy).What are the best masturbators and strokers?Below, we’ve assembled some of the best masturbators and penis toys, according to sex experts and educators. You’ll find high-quality, best-selling sex toys from brands like Tenga, Fleshlight, Fun Factory, Hot Octopuss, Arcwave, Lovehoney, and Lelo.

SELF + JimmyJane Just Launched 3 New Sex Toys

SELF + JimmyJane Just Launched 3 New Sex Toys

Here at SELF, we know a thing or two about sexual wellness. We’ve researched and written countless articles about pleasure, whether you’re intimate with a partner or just yourself. Chances are, you’ve ended up on our site looking for sex advice. And why wouldn’t you? Not to toot our own horn, but we know how to talk about orgasms, we can gab about masturbation on end, and we certainly have the chops to help you pick the best sex toy for your needs. That’s why it made total sense for us to partner with sexual wellness brand JimmyJane last year, and for us to expand on our successful collection now. Today, we’ve added three vibrators to our suite of sexual wellness toys and accessories: the Vibrating Finger Massager, Vibrating Slimline Massager, and Vibrating C-Ring.Our debut collaboration with JimmyJane consisted of massage candles, two beginner-friendly vibrators, water- and silicone-based lubes, kegel trainers, menstrual cups, sex toy cleaner, plugs, and a few kink accessories, like bondage tape and a silky eye mask. These three new SELF + JimmyJane additions intend to fit seamlessly into your sexual wellness routine, no matter what you’re into. You can shop the three toys through JimmyJane. Below, meet the trio of SELF + JimmyJane newbies.JimmyjaneSELF + Jimmyjane Vibrating Slimline MassagerOur Slimline Massager is a handy hybrid between a tiny bullet vibe and G-spot massager. It’s still discreet enough to travel with, but its larger size makes for deeper, rumbly vibrations. It’s designed for internal and external stimulation, and, like all of the toys in our collection, is made with waterproof, body-safe silicone. The Slimline has three speeds and seven vibration patterns—we recommend using it for masturbation or during partnered sex for more sensations.
JimmyjaneSELF + Jimmyjane Vibrating Finger MassagerWe love finger vibrators because they’re like an extension of your hand, meaning you’re totally in control of where you want it to go. Our finger massager offers targeted clitoral stimulation through its flexible tip and has an innovative grip design that keeps you locked in. Plus, the three speeds and seven patterns mean that you have dozens of ways to play. 
JimmyjaneSELF + Jimmyjane Vibrating C-RingIf you or your partner has a penis, try exploring with a C-ring, which, as SELF explained previously, is a ring-shaped sex toy that goes around a penis or dildo to squeeze the shaft or shaft and balls. This restriction brings pleasure to some people. The C-ring we developed with JimmyJane vibrates (not all of them do; it’s about personal preference) and can be worn up or down to stimulate both partners. Like the other two toys, it has three speeds and seven patterns, plus it’s USB rechargeable.  
More than anything else, these SELF + JimmyJane sex toys are meant to invite fun and curiosity into your sex life in a way that feels luxe, high-tech, and financially accessible. So sit back, relax, and enjoy!Related:

23 Best Bullet Vibrators for Discreet, Palm-Sized Pleasure

23 Best Bullet Vibrators for Discreet, Palm-Sized Pleasure

The best bullet vibrators are so subtle you could leave them on a table, and none would be the wiser. There are plenty of reasons to add one to your sex toy collection (or make it your main vibe; you do you).What is a bullet vibrator?As its name suggests, bullet vibrators are handheld vibrators typically shaped like bullets (and often roughly the same size). Similar to the egg vibrator, bullet vibrators offer pinpointed external stimulation to your erogenous zones, and some models are designed to stimulate the G-spot as well. “The small size of bullet vibrators allows you to focus on stimulating a specific point, from the glans of the clitoris to the perineum to the nipples,” says Lovehoney certified sex educator Javay Frye-Nekrasova, MEd (also known as The Millennial Sexpert).A word to the wise from Good Vibrations staff sexologist Carol Queen: Bullet vibrators are not safe for anal play unless they have a flared base that keeps them from getting lodged inside the body.What are the benefits of a bullet vibrator?These vibrators’ small size is actually their biggest benefit, as they are some of the most discreet sex toys—and travel-friendly, too, as they’re easy to slip into a clutch, purse, or even be worn as jewelry (really!). You can always keep one close to you when on the go, just in case the mood strikes when you least expect it, and their unassuming shape and lower price point make them excellent vibrators for beginners.Despite their petiteness, bullet vibrators offer powerful pleasure. “Because the surface area is small, especially of the tip, these toys will seem pretty intense to many users,” says Queen.This can feel amazing for anyone who enjoys pinpointed sensations during clitoral stimulation. To determine this, sex educator and sex toy reviewer Amy Norton previously suggested asking yourself: “When you receive oral sex, what tends to feel better for you: a wide, flat tongue pressed against your whole vulva, or the tip of a tongue tracing your clitoris or labia? This distinction can inform whether you’ll go for a big, all-encompassing vibrator, like a wand, or something slimmer, like a bullet.”What is the best bullet vibrator?Below, we’ve rounded up the best bullet vibrators recommended by sex experts and educators for the ultimate in discreet pleasure. You’ll find budget-friendly, best-selling options from Lelo, Maude, Dame, Crave, and We-Vibe available at Lovehoney, Amazon, Nordstrom, and more.

24 Pieces of Functional Sex Furniture Because Yes, This Is a Thing

24 Pieces of Functional Sex Furniture Because Yes, This Is a Thing

Sex pillows are helpful for various sex positions. Dr. Megan Fleming, Lovehoney sex expert, recommends using them for doggy style or if you and your partner are trying a side-by-side position. They also work quite well during missionary, if you and your partner have a significant height difference, and they provide more comfortable access for the giver during oral sex, SELF previously reported.Read more: Best Sex PillowsSex BlanketsA sex blanket is a blanket you use for masturbation or partner play to keep your sheets and other surfaces clean and dry, SELF previously reported. You can use any waterproof blanket, but blankets made specifically for sex, like the below from brands like The Layer and Liberator, might fare better. “If you’re a squirter, or you’re experimenting with food kinks, or using oil, lube, or massage candles, a waterproof blanket is going to be helpful,” Dr. Fleming told SELF. Texture is key during intimacy, too, so implementing a sex blanket can add another layer of sensuality. You can also use sex-specific sheets if you don’t want to get your favorite sheet set messy.AmazonPassionmate 100% Waterproof Sensual BlanketEtsyGetthelayer Soft Sex BlanketAmazonLiberator Decor Moisture Proof Sensual BlanketRead more: Best Sex BlanketsSex SwingsIn a nutshell, sex swings suspend one partner in the air, while the other can move around them. They’re fun for folks who want to try suspended positions without having to literally hold their partner’s bodyweight. Many swings also come with restraints and attachments.Rose encourages playing with sex swings but drives home the importance of safety. If you’re using the swings that go into the ceiling, “Use some common sense and read the instructions,” she says. There are also door swing varieties that are less permanent, travel-friendly, and far easier to assemble. You could also opt to buy a yoga swing, which is intended for acrobatics and aerial yoga poses, but easily moonlights as a sex sling.LovehoneyDominix Deluxe Fantasy Bondage SwingAmazonPipedream Fetish Fantasy Series Spinning Fantasy SwingAmazonYoga Swing Pro Premium Aerial HammockSex Chaises, Chairs, and CouchesSex chairs, chaises, and functional couches allow you to try new sex positions in a comfortable and sexy way, Rose explains. When looking for these kinds of pieces, make sure the fabric or material is easy to clean. Rose says leather is a no-no, but faux leather works just fine. You’ll also want to find smooth lines and curves, which not only looks sexy, but is also ergonomic. “I am a big, big fan of the Liberator Esse tantric chair,” says Rose. “It’s ergonomically designed and it’s got those beautiful curves, which mimic the form of the body. And if you put it in your living room or bedroom, nobody would know what it’s used for, because it just looks pretty.”If you’re interested in a sex position enhancer chair and a sex swing but don’t have the square footage, a swinging chair is a delight for oral sex and doggy style. The Nugget is intended to be a fun couch for kids, but it’s also an accidental sex couch. (It went viral in 2020 after Redditors discovered the kinds of fun adults could have on it.) Hey, as long as you’re keeping it clean, bang away. Wayfair17 Stories Kaiea Faux Leather Armless Reclining Chaise LoungeAmazonLiberator Black Label Esse Chaise with Cuff KitAmazonZuri Furniture Modern Malaga Black Basket Swing ChairSex Benches and RampsSex ramps are pretty much just larger and longer versions of sex pillows. Most sex ramps are made from high-density foam, so they’re great for playing with different positions, and they offer bodies of all sizes more support and stability than a wedge pillow. Using these positioning aids can make the logistics of sex a little easier, so you’re less in your head and can focus on the important thing: pleasure and orgasms (or multiple orgasms). 

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